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AI is becoming part therapist, part advisor, part colleague, HBR analysis shows

AI is becoming part therapist, part advisor, part colleague, HBR analysis shows

Research published by Harvard Business Review suggests AI is evolving from a productivity tool into something far more personal.

For the past three years, AI has largely been framed as a workplace tool. It drafts emails, summarizes reports, writes code, and automates routine tasks.

But according to the latest AI in the Wild study, published in the Harvard Business Review, people are increasingly using AI for something else: support. The research analyzed more than 12,000 real-world AI use cases between March 2025 and February 2026 and found that therapy and companionship remained the most common use case for a second consecutive year. Relationship advice, workplace guidance, and decision support also ranked among the most popular applications.

The biggest shift from last year is not what sits at number one. It is what has risen around it. In 2025, users frequently turned to AI for enhanced learning, finding purpose, generating ideas, and organizing their lives. Those categories have largely given way to more interpersonal uses. People increasingly rely on AI to navigate relationships, workplace interactions, and difficult decisions.

The trend is visible across the dataset. Personal and professional support now accounts for 34% of observed AI use cases, up from 17% in 2024.

The new sounding board

For many professionals, AI has become a place to test ideas before sharing them with others.

One user described using it to pressure test arguments rather than generate them: "I use AI all the time to evaluate an argument I've written and have the AI try to poke holes in it. I then assess if I'm missing something and go back to refine it myself. AI is a mirror, not a genie."

Used this way, AI functions less as an assistant and more as a sparring partner. It helps users challenge assumptions, refine arguments, and think through decisions before taking action.

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When support becomes dependence

The same study highlights a less comfortable possibility.

The researchers point to a growing risk they call "thinkslop" — the habit of outsourcing too much judgment to AI.

One participant described the shift in personal terms: "With excessive use of ChatGPT and all these AI tools, I realized I hadn't been using my brain the same way. It's so easy to let AI write for you. I was literally outsourcing my brain."

The concern is not simply that AI may produce poor answers. It is that people may stop wrestling with problems themselves.

The workplace relationship

Many respondents reported using AI for career advice, difficult conversations, and interpreting interactions with colleagues.

One user said: "I got stressed overthinking about a message my boss sent me so I got ChatGPT to be my emotional support and decipher the message for me."

The numbers suggest that example is far from unusual. Personal and professional support has doubled as a share of AI use since 2024, becoming the study's largest category. People are increasingly turning to AI not just for answers, but for advice.

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Emmi Laine is head of business content at Listeds and our lead for finance and business coverage. She sets the editorial agenda, interviews Nordic business leaders, and writes stories, newsletters, and social content on timely market and corporate topics. Emmi brings nearly eight years of experience from Shanghai's Yicai Global / Yicai Media Group, where she was awarded for reporting on China’s economy, finance sector, and technology innovation. She holds an MSc in Innovation and Entrepreneurship from ESADE Business School in Barcelona and a Master’s degree in International Design Business Management from Aalto University. She also holds a Bachelor’s degree in Culture Studies with a major in Journalism from Stockholm University and has studied Mandarin Chinese and Chinese culture. Emmi is a Finnish citizen and has lived in Finland, Sweden, China, and Portugal.

Emmi Laine is head of business content at Listeds and our lead for finance and business coverage. She sets the editorial agenda, interviews Nordic business leaders, and writes stories, newsletters, and social content on timely market and corporate topics. Emmi brings nearly eight years of experience from Shanghai's Yicai Global / Yicai Media Group, where she was awarded for reporting on China’s economy, finance sector, and technology innovation. She holds an MSc in Innovation and Entrepreneurship from ESADE Business School in Barcelona and a Master’s degree in International Design Business Management from Aalto University. She also holds a Bachelor’s degree in Culture Studies with a major in Journalism from Stockholm University and has studied Mandarin Chinese and Chinese culture. Emmi is a Finnish citizen and has lived in Finland, Sweden, China, and Portugal.

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Emmi Laine is head of business content at Listeds and our lead for finance and business coverage. She sets the editorial agenda, interviews Nordic business leaders, and writes stories, newsletters, and social content on timely market and corporate topics. Emmi brings nearly eight years of experience from Shanghai's Yicai Global / Yicai Media Group, where she was awarded for reporting on China’s economy, finance sector, and technology innovation. She holds an MSc in Innovation and Entrepreneurship from ESADE Business School in Barcelona and a Master’s degree in International Design Business Management from Aalto University. She also holds a Bachelor’s degree in Culture Studies with a major in Journalism from Stockholm University and has studied Mandarin Chinese and Chinese culture. Emmi is a Finnish citizen and has lived in Finland, Sweden, China, and Portugal.

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